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College? . . . Am I Ready?

Is taking a year off between high school and college really such a bad idea? With all the parental pressure, peer pressure, and school pressure urging high school seniors to immediately proceed to a college campus following graduation, you would think it was a crime; however, I personally think it may better prepare a teenager for college.

I truly feel a year off between high school and college is a great idea, as long as that year is spent interning, traveling abroad, or working in a related field. If a student simply plans to take the year off and become a couch potato, then a year off is probably not a good idea. But, for those students who are passionate about life and want to use a year off to better themselves, it could be amazing.

Taking a year off could benefit a student in two important ways. First, the time off would allow the student to learn who she is and what she desires to do with the rest of her life. Secondly, taking a year off offers the student a chance to learn about the world outside of the school walls and gain life experiences that will change that student for the better.

Interning in a field that a student might possibly want to work in after college is a great idea. For instance, if a student thinks she would like to go to college to become a fashion stylist, it would benefit that student to intern with a professional stylist for a year and learn firsthand what it takes to be a successful stylist. At the end of that year, the student will know whether or not fashion styling is something she wants to pursue for a career, and if it is, she will be able to approach her fashion styling major with new found excitement and direction. Interning provides a student the chance to figure out if that is really something she wants to do for the rest of her life. If not, then she just saved herself a lot of confusion and “major changing” in college.

My sister Allyson is the perfect example why interning and exploring one’s desired profession is crucial before investing time and money into it. Ally had once aspired to become a fashion designer, but this past summer she went to California to get a taste of what it would be like to design for companies, and it turns out she didn’t enjoy it as much as she thought she would. Instead Allyson has decided she would rather be a fashion stylist, which is where she would put the outfits together just not make them. If Allyson had not had these intern-type experiences this past summer, she would have declared the wrong major and cost herself a lot of money and time.

Many students realize that taking a year off between high school and college may be the only time they will ever have to travel abroad. They realize after college graduation, most students will get a full time job in their field and many times, they will get married and encounter family obligations that would make traveling abroad almost impossible. So they just go for it and take the year to encounter different cultures.

Personally, I think this is a great idea. This past summer I went to Italy for almost three weeks, and it was a great growing and learning experience for me. The trip helped me become more mature, and it forced me to become more independent and self assured, which will benefit me when I am on my own at college. In addition, I found the trip to be very educational. Learning a vast amount of history and experiencing cultural diversity forever changed me. It was a crash course in art appreciation, foreign language, and public relations. Imagine if those three weeks had been an entire year?

Another way to spend the year off is working—especially if that student can work in a field related to her future area of study in college. A student who works in a related field will gain life experiences that will make her college classes more interesting and relative.

For example, if a student plans to pursue a career in elementary education, it would be excellent for that student to work in a daycare or possibly at the Boys’ Club or Girls’ Club. Interacting with children will not only look great on a college application, but also it will reinforce the reason this student is pursuing a degree in elementary education. In addition, working during this year off will allow students to make money to put toward their education, as well as give them a taste of the real world. In other words, if a student spends a year flipping burgers for a living, going to classes in college will mean more because that student knows that a college diploma will open up doors so she will never have to flip burgers again.

There are just so many benefits to taking the year off, including: growing as a person, discovering what one really wants to do, gaining invaluable life experiences, and getting a taste of the real world. So when you are debating about going to college, please consider all of these aspects. Taking a year off between high school and college might be the best option for you.

Related online sites:

http://www.transitionsabroad.com/publications/magazine/0603/the_gap_year_advantage.shtml

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/03/14/business/14year.html

http://www.education.com/reference/article/Ref_Gap_Year_Taking_Time/


ABBY ADAMS

Seventeen-year-old Abby Adams is an outgoing high school senior who is known for her infectious laugh and charismatic personality. As a cheerleader and gymnast for the past seven years, she plans to try out for cheerleader in college next year. Abby not only enjoys participating in cheer leading, but also she loves coaching it. She is currently the Cheer Coach for a middle school cheer team in southern Indiana and a gymnastics teacher at the local Girls Club.

Abby serves as Vice-president of her senior class and excels in leadership. She plans to pursue a career in elementary education at either Asbury University in Wilmore, Kentucky or Transylvania University in Lexington, Kentucky. (read more…)

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Top 5 Trends for Fall and Winter 2010 by Ally Adams

OK, it may seem too hot where you live to be thinking about fall, but fall fashions are in the stores and it will be football weather before you know it. That said, I thought we’d explore some of the best looks for this fall fashion season. I’ve picked out five trends for both girls and guys, so enjoy. And, happy shopping!

GALS:

1. Faux Fur Leopard Coat – As the temperatures drop you’ll need a cute way to warm up and a faux fur coat should do the trick. A faux fur coat never goes out of style, and you can dress it up or down. (Plus, it’s PETA approved!)

2. Boyfriend Blazer – If you haven’t noticed by now, the new rage is wearing baggier and “boy-ier” things. A boy friend blazer is chic and cute, and it’s a comfortable way to look effortless and stylish at the same time.


3. Clog Heels. Yes, I know clog heels…they sound nerdy but they’re back in. You can wear them with a cute dress, or you can pair them with leggings and an over-sized sweater.

4. Glitter – From blues,purples, or the very basic golds and silvers,glitter eye makeup is on trend. And, it’s not just for evening so have fun with your makeup, and get your glitter on!

5. Skinny Joggers – Skinny joggers are sweat pants taken to a more wearable state. As odd as it sounds, they are a dressier version of our favorite comfy jogging pants. And, they are cute!

GUYS:

1. Shrunken Blazer. As a guy, you may not dress up that much for school but whenever you want to make an impression, a tight-fitted blazer would definitely make your mark.

2. The ‘Bad Boy’ Jacket – A leather jacket on a boy is a perfect way to keep warm and still look cool. Think James Dean…

3. Nautical Stripes -A striped knit pull over is a great way to look classy and stay comfortable. You’ll be stylish without looking like you’re trying too hard.

4. Jersey Cardigan – Cardigans have been around since our grandparents were styling their looks, but jersey cardigans are back “in” in a big way this fall. Even if you can’t buy a new one, browse your dad’s closet and borrow a few of his favorites.

5. Skinny Khakis – Many guys have been sporting skinny jeans—and not just the boy band guys—athletes and valedictorians, too. So, why not try skinny khakis? They go with practically everything. It’s a new twist on an old standard. Very hot!

ALLY ADAMS

Meet Allyson “Ally” Adams, iBegat.com’s teen fashion editor and go-to gal for style questions and advice.

Allyson “Ally” Adams, a 16-year-old living in Southern IN, wears many hats. She is an incoming junior in high school. She is a Varsity cheerleader. She is a gymnast. She is an active member of her youth group at church, No Limits. She’s a gifted photographer. She’s a volunteer, having worked at a local nursing home. And, she’s an avid lover of fashion and devoted student of style, studying the works and looks of Audrey Hepburn, Coco Chanel and Edie Sedgwick.

In fact, Ally has been in love with fashion since she was a little girl growing up in Fort Worth, Texas. While most children were playing with their Barbie dolls, Ally was styling hers. She has always been a trendsetter, not a follower. Pursing her passion for fashion, Ally recently took part in “Three Days of Fashion” at the Fashion Institute of Design & Marketing (FIDM) in Los Angeles, CA. Learning the skills of draping, fashion marketing, sketching, textile selection and more, Ally reaffirmed her career aspirations and is looking forward to early acceptance into FIDM—a college that boasts of famous graduates that include: Nick Verreos (“Project Runway” star and current FIDM instructor), Victoria Beckham (famous designer and style icon) and Lauren Conrad (clothing designer and star of “The Hills”) to name a few. Ally plans to double major in fashion design and visual communication. She looks forward to impacting the world for God. Her life verse is Jeremiah 29:11, and she is excited about the plan God has for her life.

Currently reading: “Fifty Dresses that Changed the World” (Design Museum).

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Ignore the Buzzards

“Remember that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize. You also must run in such a way that you will win.” (1 Corinthians 9:24  NLT)

I was just finishing the second to last lap of my three-mile jog, and I was definitely feeling the pain. Every pore in my body was sweating profusely. My face was red. And, I was huffing and puffing quite loudly. It had been a few days since I’d run, and my body was like, “Hey, what are you doing? You’re hurting me! Quit pushing so hard!”

As I pushed through the pain for the final lap, I noticed a big ole buzzard circling overhead. I had to laugh. It was as if that buzzard were waiting for me to keel over. I guess I must’ve looked worse than I felt. At any rate, I was just stubborn enough to run the last lap even harder than I’d run the 11 previous laps. That buzzard wasn’t about to discourage me from achieving my goal.

So, have you seen any buzzards circling overhead lately? Buzzards come in many forms—negative teachers, disapproving mothers, critical friends, etc. A buzzard is anyone or anything that comes to squash your dreams and tell you that you’re not good enough. Some of you may live in homes where your parents said derogatory things to you. Or, maybe your sibling never encourages you. Or, maybe you have a friend who is always around to offer a little dig that makes you feel less than capable. No matter what form your buzzard comes in, be assured your buzzard will come. But, you have to learn to ignore those buzzards. Just block out the buzzards and press through. Run your race, and encourage yourself in the Lord.

In the Bible, David had to encourage himself. He and his men had just returned home from a daunting battle to find their camp ravaged. Their wives and children had been captured by their enemies, and their camp had been burned. David could feel the buzzards circling. Before long, his men turned on him and talked of stoning David. But, David didn’t give up. The Bible says he encouraged himself in the Lord. Guess what? Just 72 hours later, David and his men had regained their families and belongings, and David was named King.

Buzzards, schmuzzards. If you’re feeling overwhelmed by those buzzards circling overhead, just encourage yourself in the Lord and keep on pressing toward your goals. Just think what might happen in 72 hours…

Michelle Adams is a successful and award-winning author. She teaches at writers conferences across the country and shares her love of the written word with aspiring writers. Visit Michelle at www.michellemedlockadams.com

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Drink Up!

“Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him.” (John 7:38 NIV)

Agua. H20. Water. You can call it whatever you want as long as you drink lots of it. Water is one of the best beauty secrets in the world. Did you know that water suppresses the appetite naturally and helps the body metabolize stored fat? In other words, water helps you lose weight. So, drink up!

Weight loss is just one of the benefits of drinking water. There are more reasons to drink H20 such as: water carries needed nutrients through the body and carries unwanted waste out of the body. In other words, water helps cleanse your body. Need more convincing? Continue reading “Drink Up!” »

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